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His moods are not effecting me anymore, just his actions concerning S or disrespecting my boundaries. I dont get why he keeps coming around or why he even gets mad that I dont want him here anymore.


You and I are in exactly the same spot, my girlie girl!!

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he calls me to say that he is going to "let" me have lunch with S.


I had to laugh at this because over the last year my H has "let" me do soooo much: pick up, drop off girls, watch them on weekends, clean the entire house without him, etc. ;\) I hear ya! Sorry he was a disappointment on S's bday. Just focus on what YOU got out of the day. You were right where you wanted to be.