Trying2live- the new post 1

[TxMomw/2girls]

Ladies, I've been out of touch today...

I read the same thing Marisol... and that made me sick too... but as T2L said... follow your heart... once you are done trying you will know... what is it going to hurt to delay it... nothing.

Hope - boy you've had a rough week too... I agree my girl has been sleeping with me or comes down in middle of the night and it helps.. the first week is the hardest... take it from me.. It has been one week since mine left and it is already better. It will be quite and the king bed will feel big but you will get use to it - or it will get easier I should say...

T2L - I am on the fence right now too with how to act around my H.. I feel I need to really do some searching... I either be nice, warm, talk his Love Language and fill his Love Bank as much as I can with keeping boundries of course ... I just get scared and think " out of sight out of mind"

I don't want him to have his cake and eat it too either - coming and getting his fix and then going back to OW... but on the other hand I feel that the more time he spends over at the house with our kids it is less time he is with her.. gives me the opporutnity to do my 180's, not ask too many questions, let him lead conversation, be pleasant, etc... so hard but I know the hurt and sad and frustrated me doesn't make him feel any closer to me..

Ok question - I should post on my thread which I'll do next but H has the girls all day Saturday until Sunday and he won't be in his own place by then ... he said he'd like to watch them at the house and stay at the house... I have a friend coming in from Austin and we were going to stay at my house... H said he'll take the girls to a Hotel but maybe I should stay at another friends and just let him stay at house... thoughts??? he needs to find his own place - he is staying with OW since last week.. driving me crazy..

hang in there ladies...

When God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go, only 1 of 2 things will happen, either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach you how to fly!
God closes doors no man can open & God opens doors no man can close. God is going to shift things around for you today and let things work in your favor