That is quite a tale.. Heck.. I think I'll take some time off if it works that well!
Boundaries.. oh my goodness.. and what great ones too! Who's post did I read who told her spouse... that she would give him a key to the house when he gave her a key to his place. It put it into perspective.
BUT.. Lady... Kudos, KitKats and Mars bars.. you ARE the best!!!!