Just starting to read through other sitch- and was amazed by the letter your H wrote you. I can only wonder if this is similar to what my H is thinking. We are in very tentative stages of things getting better, then backslide- ouch.
2 weeks ago he mentioned that he would love to work at a great job in the next state over- he asked if I'd be willing to live there... I said of course!
Then a few days ago he reminded me that I need to learn to live without him and get my own life...
From day to day I don't know what he wants- I think he doesn't either. He is testing the waters by visiting and talking more- yet doesn't want me to read into it.
Sounds like your H too- the old 'don't get your hopes up'.
do you ever feel like everyone tells you that someday you'll have to make a decision and you may have to walk away? I have heard that 3 times today already- friend, SIL, and Mom. Not ready to walk away yet!
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
