There is not much going on. W called today for the first time since Saturday. She has nothing to do all day but she hadn't called the kids in 4 days!
When I talked to her she was saying that she she was getting nowhere with a job search.
After S8 talked to W he told me that the dog that OW brought now has fleas and it has spread to OWs 2 cats. I said sarcastically to S8, "Mommy must be thrilled about that" He said "No, she's not happy about it"
My mother said something to me yesterday.... W lives right across the street from the kids school. W could easily see the kids when they go to school or when I pick them up, yet she never does. She hasn't seen them in almost 2 weeks and she didn't want to come to D6 dance lessons on Saturday. My mother said to me "If they were my kids and I lived across the road, I'd be there every day" She is right. This type of thing serves to remind me that there is so much more going on in this situation than my W simply not being happy in her marriage.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford