I think you are doing great based everything crashing down around you. I remember the week my husband moved and I don't think I did well at all... I remember needing to go take a nap in the middle of the day at work- cause I hadn't slept in days- looked awful, probably shouldn't have been there.
You have made it this far. Cry when you need to- but try to keep it away from H. I know you already know this- and it is so hard. I still on occasion lose it. I wish I wasn't a cryer during times of stress! Oh well.
The first few weeks it seems like DB really doesn't happen. Read the book as your bible every night. It will get easier to put it in play. I think it took me a month or so to start making real changes. Schedule a DB coaching session if at all possible!
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
