Sanderika - what is the worst thing that can happen?

OK - so right now you think that the worst thing that can happen is that your H doesn't return?

So he doesn't return? What then?

You say yourself you've been going through this for over 30 months. You are still here. Right? You have survived your H not returning for over 30 months. Right?

Sanderika, whether your H returns or not, he can't and won't make you happy. Only you can do that. You can live in a marriage and still be miserable. You can live independently and have a wonderful and amazing life. It's all up to you.

Instead of living in fear of what might happen - why don't you live for today. Today you H is off in la-la land and you are a beautiful, independent woman with the world at her feet. Today you can live for you. tomorrow, your H might come back - or he might not - but deal with that when it happens. There is nothing you can do about it.

The only thing you can control is your circumstances and how you react to them. You can make your life wonderful if you chose to. If one day your H choses to join you in your amazing life, and you are prepared to let him join you - deal with that then.

Take care, Virginia

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.