On Monday, H helped me release a raccoon in a "safe" trap (doesn't kill the animal just traps it) at my parents (my parents are in Florida and forgot to close the traP). After snooping, I found out he hung out w/ OW when he told me he was going to hang out with a guy friend...Here is our IM about it...

Me: Did you have fun on Monday night?
H: the most fun i had on monday was saving that raccoon
Me: awh
H: that's not a bad thing. just saying
Me: so, not much fun otherwise?
Me: not really, but that's fine. my life doesn't need to be consistently exciting.

H & I, both 32, together since 18.
*M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08
* Agreed to D 6/09...very hard
*D 8/10
* At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF