Hi karen, I agree that the DB techniques are good for both working the M and if it does not work. Since I am just fairly new to this I need to give it a try. I had 21 years invested in this marriage and will not give up after 3 months. I am very scared of the future but need to take one day at a time. These message boards are a Godsend for me. thanks for your post.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09