Hi Marisol, I am at work too and I have to keep walking outside to compose myself today. You base your response to either do you want this divorce or do you want to reconcile? Do not base it on what H wants. We have options. Do not let pride get in the way if you do want the marriage to work. I have some family members calling me today to say to file for D, how could you ever take him back etc. I need to formulate what I want to do. My family is trying to make me feel better but they do not live my life. Am I scared with all the work I need to put into this that he could still follow through for D? Absolutely -- but I need to try. Look at other success stories here where some people actually get D and then reconcile. Have faith in yourself and what YOU want to do. good luck
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
