T2L - Thank you for your words....it means alot. I cried at the moment of reading Hope's entry and did compose myself as I am at work

I did read the info from the link....did you also read that he said it was not likely for spouses who are physically separated to reconcile? That threw me for a loop.

I will be calling the paralegal today to file the request for reconciliation...I'm still unsure about it though. Part of me says yes then part of me says to just file the response to his requests and proceed with the D. How do I decide? What would you all base your decisions on?

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.