So, going by what you guys are saying, I can take some of these more recent actions from her as possibly her trying to "show me some love"?...LOL.
Cooking me something specifically that I asked about or she knows I like? The first few months after the bomb I would cook or we would go out. She rarely grocery shopped or made dinner. The other day she did the laundry and folded and hung my things before I got home....been a long time since she did that...acts of service?
Touching....one time a while ago while we were being close, she put her hand on my cheek and I held it there and told her I liked that. Now when we are being close or intimate, she always puts her hand on my face, or rubs my cheek. All through our marriage, I never remember that as something she did....touching my face.
Quality time....close to home and me the last few weeks, with very little time out with the girls, or at friends and relatives. Things she did most often in the beginning....that I assumed were to get away and have some space.
While I was writing this I got a text..."Oh my god...you must be busy. you haven't texted me all day".
I said...Thinking the same thing about you. figured you didn't want to be bothered...busy though. skipped lunch and very hungry..lol.
She texted back..."me too. what do you want for dinner?"
Maybe there is something to this love language thing??
