H has officially lost his mind....lol

[kissak]

I talked to my H. His lawyer had questions about why I asked for half his retirement, when he didnt want any of my business.

I guess my H explained that he just wanted to make sure me and the kids were taken care of and he understood he was entitled to half of the business.

Lawyer wants H to just take out a loan to pay me for half retirement to avoid fees or something like that....and it isnt even half. I deserve way more than what he is saying and I told him that werent even half and that I had to look out for me and the kids. HE said he was just relaying what the lawyer told me. and that he told him he would just talk to me about it. I told him that I was giving up alimony and even the right to claim one child a year. If his lawyer wanted me to give H half the business then, we would do every thing that Way! H is cooporative with me, but his lawyer isnt seeing the big pic here of what I am giving up. I know my H will give me what I want, but he is thinking, why should he have to give up half his retirement to just get rid of his wife! lol
Well, your the one who wanted this buddy!!

But H was very nice about it and just wants us both to avoid fees and mess.

Neither one of us know what to do.