You came along and everything started to hum.

[LL44]

What are YOU going to do about it? Sounds like mine H. Sunday night I asked him to get out of MY bed (he decided to nap in it!) and he said "You get out. You go downstairs and wait til I'm awake". They are so nasty.

By the way, I didn't wait til he was awake.

But, I digress....

where so many of you came and shared my nervousness of court and made it possible for me, to go into court the next day with my head held up high. Because in the mist of all that Blogging, you all gave me so much strength

I wanted you to know that I shed tears for you on the day of your divorce. The way you worded it, the emotions coming from you and from your X...I could picture myself in those shoes way back then, and I could only hope I could get through it like you did. Here I am, weeks away from it. I know I can do it now, thanks to people like you showing me it will be ok, it can be done, it won't kill me.

So sad that many of those people can't offer their terrific support anymore. But thank you, miss lissie from the bottom of my heart.

[KarenMarieS]

It will work out Lissie
Things always seem to.

[Trip]

Lissie, that just sucks. I am so sorry.

and then the buttmunch still puts it on you!

[Reincarnated]

That is the definition of a buttmunch, I do believe. I have one of those...

[Lissie]

buttmunch, sigh.

Thanks

Called my mom this morning, and she said to me

SHUT UP

he has always been money hungry and I felt that this would happen to him b/c he sees dollar signs all the time.

He has been trying to screw you over for the longest with money

--->

she usually adores him

So she said you always have a home here

and we will do what we have to
do.

So I shut it, like she said b/c if i kept talking i would of had to hear

the story of her and my papi coming to this country with 20 dollars in their pocket

and i am at work bless their hearts

so onward and forward peeps

Luv yiz

[Reincarnated]

So, you have the back-up plan. Take a breath, now, and let the chips fall for a while. SO glad you have the support of your parents!!! How is papi?

[braveheart]

X just called me

He was just fired.

WHAT?

Fired.

I was like what

then he started yelling, I was Fing fired do you Fing understand?

UGH

I just said ok bye


So the mortgage?

what?

He never had a problem with work before.

Nice that he blew our retirement money on his friggen apt and tight t shirts that showed his nipples.

He moved in with his GF also

He called me and he said , I dunno what YOU are going to do now?

nice

ugh


I can't wrap my brain around this right now.

good grief

I don't comment much about your stich anymore, but I would like to make a couple of comments. I would be curious to know WHY he was fired. Second, I wonder how appealing he will be now to his G.F. now that he isn't making the big money. I would stay tuned if I were you, I have a feeling this story is going to make a major turn very soon.......

[EverHopeful]

OH SUGAR !!!!!!!!

Whenever things go wrong with them, they always take it out on us... be ready because braveheart is absolutely right.

I am reading a great book, check it out... "My EX is Driving Me Crazy".

Preparate, mi amor.

I am going to call you tonight...

[Lissie]

Bravey, even tho you are upset with me you posted? sigh. Thank you lovey.

WEll I dunno , I think she will just support his butt if you ask me.

I just can't see him Fing up another R. I think it will bring them closer.

I don't really care, to tell you the truth, he could marry her for all I care.

Just give a room to my kids already

sheesh

he called me today, and said I can't take the kids today (eyeroll)

But i said Ok honey, you do what you have to do to get yourself together ok.

and bye

EVER

hahahhaa preparate! You sound like my cousin

OMG come over this weekend, we(bunch of us) are going out, you have the kids? ok call me

[Was2sad]

Lissie

I know you have a lot on your mind now. But have you considered sharing this info with you L?

You may be advised to prepare for some future action. He should not be off the hook forever just because he is not working now. He will get another job. We all need fries !!!

Your L may advise you on what is required to lay claim to back payments once he is working. There may be room to lay claim to part of his separation, or tight shirts.

I know you aren't concerned about how this will play with his new gal; though I expect it will be proverbial "you know what in the punch bowl". As much as it will hurt you financially right now, she will probably like it a whole lot less! Just wait till he calls to rant about that sorry B!tch leaving him .... and how can somebody do that to somebody else. That is when I will send you a bottle of the good stuff!!

The family that loves him in spite of his actions can feed him. It is not your job to let him off the hook. He owes his kids. Time for him to Man Up and do without for the kids.

And I'll have a chocolate shake with those fries Dude!