no, he only calls me in the mornings...he called to talk to the kids this morning, and then to me. We talked for about 5 min i guess about my financial sitch and how he was going to try and help me.

If he texts now it is only to say hey how are you...thats it. I say fine, he says good. Nothing else the rest of day unless I say something, then he only gives answers....like I can say hows ur business going? he would say, fine....thats it. I think most people would have said "fine and yours?" Stuff like that. I dont know, its all one sided conversations.

Drives me nuts. I guess I do just need to let him be for a while. He did have an appt today and thats all he would say, then i asked what kind of appt, he then said "honestly with the lawyer"

I just said ok. I have not replyed to his comments or anything out of anger or being upset today. Normally I would have been crying asking him about seeing someone else or just mad and would have stopped talking. I think my response about the lawyer was even different. I think I surprise him on how i reacted to it today. But still he hasnt really talked to me. Ive tried to just deal with the way things are today.

I dont like it, but Im dealing with reality and the reality is he is gone, talking to the lawyer, getting papers ready to sign, looking for someone else. He is moving on. Not looking back at me anymore. Why, I dont know. It was only a month or so ago he said to me "if things dont work out with OW and you dont interfer, I will give US 100%.

So, Im just confused on his behaviour. AND not to mention him coming to church.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10