I have been asking questions and getting feed back from "Q/A with the WAS", but it appears to be lock up.
So I am adding this:
Well, I made through the night and part of day with WAW, without anything bad happening. We didn't argue, we only had one very short exchange about relationship, which may have given me a little hope. It may be my imagination, but at least I did not get an answer that was final.
W came home and spent the night. This was the first time we have spent the night under the same roof in 4 months. She stayed in the extra bedroom and used the front bathroom. I was in the master bedroom and use the master bath. We had a good visit about general topics, kids, grand kids, her work, my work, her work, and her work. She took and stayed with me for my medical procedure. We went to lunch and she drove me home. She has now gone back to work.
A few observations: 1) We talked about what to do with one of our bedrooms. She said she had thought we would put some of her family's heirlooms furniture in this room. That in itself will not mean anything to you except, 2 weeks ago she said that she would have her B come by and pick that same furniture and store it for her. 2) I have another appointment for another medical procedure 6 months from now. I told her that I would find someone else to take me to that appointment. She said that is OK, she will do it. 3) The only R talk was when she said good-by. She gave me huge and I asked when is this going to change. She “I don’t know”. As if she maybe re-thinking D. She did not say it, but you had to be there to understand what I mean. Of course it my be my imagination.
But all in all I think this 18-hour visit went real well. I was a littler quitter than usual, but she talked about her job most of the time anyway. I did the listening. By the way she talks all she has now is her job/work nothing else of any real meaning.
Your comments are welcomed. I/We have a tendency to read more into something that is real there. However, this could be another baby step in the right direction.
Your encouragement here has been great for me. I feel stronger than I have before now. You guys here are an inspiration. Thanks
