About LLs, how does your W love on you? Most people love others according to what makes them feel loved. Make sense?
Honestly, no...you mean do I know my own LL?
He means most people use their own love language to express love to the other person although the other person may have a totally different love language. If you like touching, then you'll touch your spouse to show your love. If quality time is it, then you'll spend quality time with your spouse. The problem is your spouse may not have touching and quality time as their love language, so you think you're showing love but your spouse is not feeling love because they have a different love language than yours.
So if you watch how your W shows you love, you will figure out what her love language is by how she shows it to you. The way she shows it may not fill up your love bucket if it isn't your LL.
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