What I thought about was did I want the marriage or did I want a divorce? I want the marriage --- even though right now I am the only one who wants it.
That's cool. For me though I mentally am fine no matter what happens. At one point I wanted the marriage 100% and I don't anymore with H as he is now with OW, and the personality changes, poor parenting, etc. I know that I'll be happy no matter what happens, so that's kind of comforting for me. The separation/divorce process for us will take at least a full year so I figure that's enough time for H to decide if he wants D or not; and if he chooses D I think my life will be just as good as when married if not better. Karen
Karen
