Here's where I stand; Separated since April 08 Little contact with W except on kid issues. Full mediation to end our marriage Oct31. Wife not interested in making any effort towards us. Wife convinced we have nothing in common, nothing can change, typical waw excuses. However, she has become BFF with another divrced woman. She also bailed on her husband. I hear many of the same excuses from W that I heard when this lady gave up. My W had many problems with this lady for a long time. Didn't like her selfishness, materialism, etc. However "she has changed" and now they are best friends. My W states to me that "you can't change people, people cannot change", but admits this lady did ( I don't think she really did, I think my W changed and became her).
Anyway, I'm in the final 30 day stretch of married life. Its my w birthday next week.
