Hi TxMom, I worry about that too now that H is moving out. It will either bring the OW closer because H no longer is in house or maybe it will drive them apart. Remember how do you give your heart to someone after only a few months. Right now they are in the "honeymoon stage", the excitement and newness, that will wane after awhile. I agree with T2L that the MLC and OW is an addicted pattern. After a time he will start hopefully coming out of the fog. I noticed a slight change with my H sometimes like he was more of "himself". It was living with a stranger that I did not know. What I thought about was did I want the marriage or did I want a divorce? I want the marriage --- even though right now I am the only one who wants it.
Goal list for today- titled "making it through the worst day and surviving"
move some of my clothes where H's clothes were to fill the space. sit with D15 tonight and NOT talk about H (unless she wants to) call D28 and connect with her tonight Breathe Breathe Breathe
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
