Rob,

It's going to take something really HUGE to change whatever the divorce decree says. Going back to court is definitely not in your best interest. 2 weeks in the summer? That's super weak. Can't your lawyer ask for more? That's just too small. I would push for more time. The most they can do is say no.

As for joint legal custody...that doesn't count for squat. It means you can keep your wife from having your daughter donate a kidney, but that's about it. It gives you some rights to get stuff from school or take her to the doctor, but no real power. She is free to screw you around with visitation and such as much as she wants.

I'm sorry man. I hate even reading this. Can't you use any of your wife's apparent slutty behaviors against her? Having the building supervisor sleeping over when your daughter is there seems like it should be a strike against her.


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