My H lives 1 1/2 hrs away with OW. H and I don't talk/communicate (except my text slip up last week) unless it's about S's which is almost never. I see OW's comments on her myspace page about how GREAT her weekend was with her man, can't wait for her man to come home, etc.
My question is, how in the hell can H and I ever get back together if we aren't communicating or seeing each other. We don't have it like some here with younger kids because S16 drives to his dad's when he wants to see him. So H has no need to come to the house or ever see me again.
Absence is not making his heart grow fonder.
He has OW 24/7 and they are SO happy.
I have been working on myself. I started selling Silpada Designs to help supplement my full time job. I really love it. I've met some really nice people. I don't date (honestly no one has even approached me) and I've never been one for the bar seen. A friend just told me about a divorce group at her church that I'm going to go to with her. I'm alway here for S16. H doesn't take his every other weekends with S16 (S16 doesn't care to go) so it's not like I can make any plans for get aways for myself.
We will be separated a year next month. A YEAR!! My how time flies when you're going through hell.
So what do I do? Do I pack it in? Do I conceed defeat? Do I say thanks for 21 yrs., 2 great kids, see ya? Honestly, if H and I don't see/speak to each other how is this fixable? It's like I am a total stranger to him.
HELP!!! I don't know what to do. How do I go about saving my marriage?
