Ali,

I don't think own commitment, determination and love are not in issue at this point.

You're attending AA and reading more books about marriage. Fine.

But what is HE doing? Is HE stepping up to the plate?

Its good to hear from you again.

S&A


"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.

Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.