Regarding the nice guys finish last, absolutely that is H's mentality.
His leadership style, he has described in the past, as "It is better to be feared than loved", which he got from a Machiavelli book.
He says often, "I don't care if the people at work like me, I just care if they get their jobs done"
However there is another part of him that dresses to impress, has to have the nice truck, nice house, etc. so I don't know how those two mesh...
well Bulllchittt..ya know earlier..weeks back when you said your H and I sounded a lot alike..well I believe you are right to some extent. There are some differences for sure but lots alike or at least like I used to be..
I had the NGFL mentality and still do to some extent. It just always seems to happen. I never feel very lucky and I bet he never does.
I often had the atttitude that I did not care if people liked me or not.
I was often very grumpy, have been described as moody. A smart assss at times.
oh it all meshes..so how did he grow up..stable home, caring parents..had what he needed maybe but nothing more??
I always dressed comfortable but did want to look good comfortably...and I always kept my car spotless. it had to look good. I think mine came from a "I want more mentality"..Growing up I always felt that I had enough..I mean I never went without but always sort of envied those that had more or better...I don't know that any of this helps BBJ...please tell me if I'm muddying things...OK it's not my intentions..
I feel I know him and I've never met him..don't have a clue what he looks like either..
