OMG Marisol I didn't know that's how it happened for you. Tears are okay. Try to be sure that you don't take rejection upon yourself and I know that's going to be hard because of the manner in which he left. But ya know what I have come to realize a lots in people. Sometime the very thing they feel inside about themselves they project on others. Maybe he deals with rejection or abandonment issues that are unresolved and has no clue and needs solution based help. But I know that pride doesn't allow them to get help and if we suggest it, its not a good thing.
Either way the Affair will not work. What starts in deception ends in deception at some point. The statistics are there to back it up. If our spouses do not et it together they are in for a long, miserable and lonely road. We if we take this situation grow from it and gain tools and improve in any area are going to go on and find happiness and success, which ultimately is what all our spouses want. I have no doubt by everything you have said in pasts posts that you are going to make it and do well in life.
Off subject. I wanted to give you all this link. It will help you see if you had any contributions to spouses unhappiness(and I do not in any way mean it made it okay or you should accept responsibility for A) and if you didn't it's great information for any marriage good or bad and we should all have it in case, God forbid, we have to move forward with new significant others. I know for sure that if I do, I will be implementing this information. At the bottom it breaks down and explains each one, I would encourage you to click on each one to understand them. I need improving in 2 of them.
