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The vents and rants seemingly caused by our own lack of patience or perspective for the situation.

So stop taking the temperature. You are gaining perspective but it goes against years of beliefs. Have a open mind to what might work.
About LLs, how does your W love on you? Most people love others according to what makes them feel loved. Make sense?

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"ahh, that feels so good".

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.."Thank you. car looks great".

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...she said "I told you, it's up to you..I am letting you lead the way".


Have you not been looking for words to see if she loves you?! Here's your sign! \:D
Make it a goal not ask how you are doing (maybe your LL is WOA?) or ask her about the R. It's growing and blossoming whether you ask or not.
Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.