For the Guy with Kids and a WW XV

[Sugar and Spice]

Well hell, if you got the Troll texting you and apologizing to you....you f*cked SOMETHING up real good.

BOO HOO

I think it was a by-product of the pity party she was throwing herself that day. As far as I know, nothing has changed. So all of that "I need to make changes for my daughter now and the baby to come" was all just self-serving BS because she actually had a twinge of conscience or whatever. I didn't buy then and I don't now, but if I can merely serve as an annoyance...then that works too!!!! LOL.

Sounds like you have done some of the same. Good for you. I think it helps with the killing off of the fantasy, for both parties. As long as they are able to avoid reality, they can fool themselves into thinking that things will be shiny and happy FOREVER. Once little doses of reality, truth darts, etc...start coming into play, their little fantasy starts to crack around the edges and then fall apart.

You know what they say, out of sight out of mind. When you are there, you are not out of OM's sight or mind. It has to make him really wonder why you are there still, why she is feeding you, etc...