I understand where you are. I guess where I am is that we HAVE to move forward - it isn't really a choice. I mean we wake up every morning and we have to "getr done"
It isn't really a descion for you my friend - it is just learning to move on (just like me) knowing that he may not ever come back around and believing in Gods best for us.
That is standing to me. d12 asked me last night if i would take him back if he came around -- i smiled at her and said I would date him of course-- but he can't "come home..." we are divorced. She got it.. I said we would have to date again and start over --- which isn't all bad. AND I said to her -- he needs to want to come back around -- adn right now he doesnt...
(OH AND THE above post from me...I WASNT PERSONALLY going to be doign anything "questionable..." but I would have been condoning it -- and because of that I had to draw my own line with a dear friend. (Girl).
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
