I think it was ok. It seems to work for you guys. I just worry about your mental health when he reams against you and says visious things. I know all WAS's do this to a degree but I think you really need to be careful and guard your heart if it starts to cross over into being verbally abusive. Has he always lashed out with words? Like when you were living together and would have a fight about something would he say mean and cruel things to you then or is this a new behavior?
