Saffie and TxMom, My H is moving today and it breaks my heart. But I have set some goals with the house and myself and GAL to win him back. That is my bottom line. I am working on my control issues and anger. Saffie did your H move out of the house while in A? It was hard to DB these last few days because of all the emotions. This morning in leaving for work H came over and hugged me and I said I'm sorry but I can't remember any of the bad right now. I love you. All against DB but it was heart felt. Need to stop obsessing about OW also. I keep bringing her up. I know it is bad because then all it does is validate her. Without H in house I will be able to keep to my game plan better. Any tips on what you did Saffie is appreciated.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
