Except there is never a never. You can ALWAYS make changes. And you CAN change her perception of you. You may not want to, and you don't have to...but you CAN.
This is so true.
you can also sew a set of balls on your aunt and call her your uncle.
Sg, you know i'm pretty dense. what kinda changes are we talking here?
as always.
Love Ford.
Well, look at how FIB changed his W. She has gone from a dispicable mother who left her own kids sit in soiled clothes with no food and just the tv for a babysitter to now being SuperMom and being totally involved in every aspect of their lives. That's quite a change!
FIB, you are not on an easy road to D the person while living in the same house. Of course there will be high emotion and bursts of anger from both sides.
Do you recognize the changes in your W? I know you cannot get over '3 men' and will continue with the D and I am not faulting or accusing that anything should be different, but do you see anything positive about your W that can help this transition for you to coparent with her?
I feel so much hurt for your 2 kids who are being jerked between parents who both love them.
ford - did you hear about the lady who got hired in the Tickle Me Elmo factory? On her very first day there were Elmo dolls backed up in huge piles. The supervisor was furious and went to the hiring manager to complain. The manager went out to talk to the new lady and when he got to the middle of the pile and saw the lady he started laughing hysterically. She was taking 2 little marbles and putting them in a small bag and sewing them between the legs of each doll. The manager walked over and said to her 'I hired you to do two test tickles.'
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
