What do I do now?

[lost3031]

So here's an update on my sitch. I don't suppose I'll be posting on here anymore since my D was not busted after all. After going through numerous counseling sessions, it finally came to light that even though H and I still love each other tremendously (and probably always will), we have changed over the past year and a half to the point that we simply do not have the same goals for our lives and that our views on what's important to us no longer mesh. It's incredibly sad to think that 14 years of my life can be wiped away with two signatures on a piece of paper, but that is what is going to happen on Oct. 13. I think we'll always be very close friends and will always be there for each other. But right now, we both agree that we cannot remain in limbo and the best thing to do is to move on with our lives and see where they take us. And who knows? Somewhere down the road, we may find ourselves back to each other...
I just want to thank everyone who has listened to me vent and who has offered their advice throughout my time on this board. Good luck to everyone - hopefully it all works out better than it did for me...