I did something I shouldn't have, but I think the end result was was OK. I IMd H and said "I just really want to apologize for coming across like I wasn't listening. I'm really sorry. No further discussion needed, just hope you will accept my apology. I looked back through the conversation and I think I was being pushy, hope you will forgive me".
There were a few more comments on both sides, but he said "no, its both of us, i am sorry if i seem so hard about it". He offered to talk in person at the house on Monday, and I said that it was OK, instead we could just enjoy our time together. I said that I had just thought he was being closed to me, and in turn he probably thought I wasn't listening ,and that maybe there was some truth to both. He said "true". Anyway at the end we both agreed to just enjoy our Monday together. I am pretty nervous, but I feel a little bit better now. I hope seeing him will be a good thing. There has been such ugliness spewed over the past few weeks that it's hard to say what the day will look like...I will need to take it as an opportunity to do my BEST Dbing ever!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
