Well,after one great week we had together, I can now see him pulling away from me again ever so slightly.
H had a band practice sunday night and didnt end up coming over until after 11:30. I didnt mind because we spent the whole day together up until his band practice.
Then on Monday, his band played at their open mic night and then I left right afterwards. We only saw each other for about 2 minutes.
Then last night he didnt end up coming over until 8:30. When he got to my place he told me that he is thinking about buying back our old first house.
I didnt even know what to say. I didnt say a thing. I was speechless. The reason for this is becuase we put a ton of work into our first place and we lived their for 5 years. He hated the place during our 5th year their and was craving to move any where else. He would say how bad he hated that house at that time.
He then lost that house in his bankruptcy. We were keeping it as rental property when we moved into our next home, but we lost it in the long run. Lots of money down the drain. Plus, when we rented it out the people that were living in it destroyed a lot of it.
So, I feel very dissed that he wants to buy it back. He wanted out of it so bad just 3 yrs ago. It is a small house and there is no way he would want me to move in there with him. He is doing this just so he can get a bachelor pad that he can afford. Now I know he has no intentions of us living together any time soon.
I am so frusterated right now. How do I deal with this. It is totally unappropriate. Meanwhile we are still both paying mortgage or rent to live in seperate places. My funds are very low right now, and it kills me that we are just throwing away $ to live seperately.
I am gonna blow a fuse. My H has no idea how to be a husband. His main concern now is always himself. I have no idea what to say to him or how to react to this. TIPPER
