Thanks for saying I have good advice; my sitch has been an absolute rollercoaster and 2 weeks ago I wouldn't have believed the things I told you. It was only after listening to my H tell me mariage was like a prison 1 day, and then the next day saying he missed me that it clicked. He has been "good H" for nearly a week now, for the first time in months. I have to stress though, that I really don't think we'd be even this far were it not for DBing and these boards.I didn't act as if I were moving on, but I did quit initiating contact, and quit telling him about my own feelings.
When you say that you will act as-if you're moving on, how do you mean? I think it's great to work on your life the way you would want it to be with or without your H, as long as it doesn't include dating etc. Of course that's just my take, others might have different opinions.
If you want to check out my sitch, my current thread is on this board and is "I believe in Miracles".
Hope you're doing OK today, ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
