I'm glad. You gotta go with your gifts...snark is mine. What do you do?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
You should have said in hear-shot of your girls....It sounds like your boyfriend Tom wants me to leave now!!!
Would that be considered a truth dart? I like the way you think Flynn...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I had to keep thinking to myself, "Remember your goal, remember the goal."
The best way that I could think of it was a "glass half full, glass half empty" situation.
Like someone posted to me not too long ago, this guys patience may be wearing thin. How long is he really willing to wait on her. I'm looking at it as an opportunity to f*ck with their show.
And now this week belongs to me unless another opp presents itself. During my week with the girls, I'll give her a taste, when she has the kids and can't do anything, I'm having my fun going out and GALing.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
I'm looking at it as an opportunity to f*ck with their show.
Thats kinda how I look at things. I may not do it in the same manner, but it has the same effect. I'm sure it drives the Troll nuts.... "And all the Who's down in Whoville went BOO HOO"
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Well hell, if you got the Troll texting you and apologizing to you....you f*cked SOMETHING up real good.
BOO HOO
I think it was a by-product of the pity party she was throwing herself that day. As far as I know, nothing has changed. So all of that "I need to make changes for my daughter now and the baby to come" was all just self-serving BS because she actually had a twinge of conscience or whatever. I didn't buy then and I don't now, but if I can merely serve as an annoyance...then that works too!!!! LOL.
Sounds like you have done some of the same. Good for you. I think it helps with the killing off of the fantasy, for both parties. As long as they are able to avoid reality, they can fool themselves into thinking that things will be shiny and happy FOREVER. Once little doses of reality, truth darts, etc...start coming into play, their little fantasy starts to crack around the edges and then fall apart.
You know what they say, out of sight out of mind. When you are there, you are not out of OM's sight or mind. It has to make him really wonder why you are there still, why she is feeding you, etc...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Anything I can do to try to help kill the fantasy works for me. She did get to me last night, though. I know it shouldn't have. She just got me back. I start to believe that maybe she really IS happy. Hopefully he DOES wonder. Maybe this guy really does have infinite patience. What a nice guy.
Makes me puke.
Not a lot going on today. Busy at work. Lots of questions/phone calls about my financial institution. Are we safe, are we strong. We are owned by the second largest bank in Spain and it has deep pockets. Very well run company.
Talked to D11 for only a bit today. I told her to call me tonight, which she forgot to do.
Came home and cleaned up the mess my tornado's usually leave. Did some washing, did the dishes, put away clothes.
Watched a movie tonight with kat, karen and lodo. It was funny, but not FUNNY.
It's these days without my girls that can kind of get to me, but I'll be okay. I have to go in early and open the branch tomorrow. Didn't sleep very well last night, so I'm tired. Hopefully, better tonight.
I will get to get my girls on Saturday even though it is the wifes weekend. She has to work a full day, and we got invited to a Bday party. I asked her if it was ok, and she said sure. The party ends at 7pm, so the wife will be home by then. Wonder what I'll do after. See if she invites me to stay for dinner or something. If not, I'll try to make plans.
I'm just rambling here.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 10/02/0803:53 AM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
