Thanks Lost. I love GF, she and I have very similar H's and she is so right. Now I just need to figure out what I want and what I'm ready to do.

I am doing better at taking care of myself, but she is right. I need to be less "available" to H. How can you miss what is always there?

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option