I don't think I could handle a move right now either. This has been a devastating year for me & that would be just one more thing to have to deal with.
My dogs have been wonderful for me!! I know how you miss yours. My oldest is 14, it is so hard seeing them get old but she is still right here with me. The holistic vet told me that she has stayed around b/c she knew that I needed her.
Isaiah 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Romans 12:12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi nlt, I think you are right not to move right now. It is also not the right time for selling a house. So if you can afford it sit tight and see what will happen. I don't think it would work out for you living with your parents even for a short while as you could not escape anywhere else.
I am amazed that you can cross stich and watch TV! I can't even iron and watch TV. Aren't your stiches all over the place - LOL?
I am amazed that you can cross stich and watch TV! I can't even iron and watch TV. Aren't your stiches all over the place - LOL?
LOL!! That's funny. No, I actually do pretty good. I have to have those reading glasses so I'm looking up & down a lot.
I know you are right about not moving in with my parents. If I did move back to my home town I would have to get a place of my own. There is land right behind my parents house that I've always wanted to build a house on (it's their land) but right now I just feel like this is where I'm supposed to be. I may be crazy but I still can't give up on H just yet. I may be wrong but I just keep praying for God to show me the way.
Thank you so much!! I don't know why I feel like I can't give up on H right now. He has put me thru so much & most of my family & friends can't stand him the way he has done & treated me.
I may be totally wrong about this but right now I just have to do what I feel in my heart.
nlt--thinking of you. sounds like you are holding up pretty good.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Intuition is a powerful thing, we need to follow that....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
