While you are working on this very worthwhile endeavor, can I implore you to make the other insanity stop? Is it worth it, just to make a point? You are being baited, and if it is one thing I have finally figured out, is that you have to AVOID the bait!
But also see the point behind the backlash....there are SO many voices of support for the majority of the women who were booted (mine included, but you know that). The antagonist is gone; PLEASE let those who have helped so many come back so they can continue the good that they have done!
This has the real possibility of spiraling out so far, that newer people in need won't stay, and that would be a crime. You may win the battle, but loose the war. Rise above the bait, DB the heck out of the sitch, and move toward what would be best for all....
Meanwhile, I'm going to go back and see if there is anyone else I might be able to help tonight, while I am feeling pretty together. Pay it forward time.