I hate this with a passion. no amount of prayer is helping with my situation. I just want her to leave me alone altogether, or wake up and want to reconcile.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
Hummmmm.... I wonder why this is occuring now. Was OM staying with her, or she with him? Why is she now having this difficulty being alone?
I guess I'd explain, "I'm sorry sweetheart, but we're separated and separation is a time for both of us to explore ourselves and our lives to figure out where we want to be. I'd like to help you, but I really need space right now. Maybe you can go to (parents?)..."
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
most days when I have our son, she'll just text me once asking how he is. Other days like the past 2, she tries to be my buddy. There has got to be a way.....
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
please help me I can't take this anymore. I want to ignore her, it's not that I'm physically not able....the way custody is arranged we have to see each other or talk. I ignore her calls and she asks if I'm ok. I say fine and leave it at that, and she asks if I'm mad at her. I want next to nothing to do with her, but when she picks our son up, I have to be there. I ignore her calls throughout the day, and everyone tells mr I have to be civil because of my son, but this is breaking me down fast. I can't keep doing this
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
please help me I can't take this anymore. I want to ignore her, it's not that I'm physically not able....the way custody is arranged we have to see each other or talk. I ignore her calls and she asks if I'm ok. I say fine and leave it at that, and she asks if I'm mad at her. I want next to nothing to do with her, but when she picks our son up, I have to be there. I ignore her calls throughout the day, and everyone tells mr I have to be civil because of my son, but this is breaking me down fast. I can't keep doing this
Wife: "Please, come over here! THERE'S SOMEONE IN THE HOUSE, and I'm scared!"
You: "I'm tired, and I'm going back to sleep. If you're convinced that there's someone in the house, call the police. Please don't bother me again with your childish games."
I'm about one conversation away from blowing up and telling her to leave me the hell alone and not to talk to me. I have bit my tongue for 4 months. After her cheating and lying and being nasty and getting pregnant, and divorce and custody papers, I am going to detonate. I tried the nice guy, I tried the knight in shining armor, I tried the mean guy; I tried the non responsive guy. Nothing works. I am starting to loathe her altogether
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
Puppy in the very very slight chance someone was in the house, they could he harmed or dead before the cops could be called. I was at work right down the road. I couldn't live with that on my conscience
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
There's no need to "detonate" or "blow up." Merely tell her, firmly, that if she wants to be alone, she's going to get her wish, but that her wish has consequences.
