wow, my counselor talked tonight about the emotional/love bank. I was askng the C if I should help H with training, since he wanted to stand on his own, and the C said why should you not help. Then you can make a deposit in the love bank. Everytime you get angry, upset or something negative then you withdraw from the bank -- when the bank is empty there is nothing left. I am trying to wrap my arms around this concept but it makes sense. The C did annoy me because he told me about Divorce care meetings where you talk about divorce. I told C I was not interested in D but wanted reconcillation and this was not an option at this time. Plan A and B was interesting. Right now it would not work for me -- too soon but maybe Plan A concept could work. T2L what is the plan for Saturday? I have hope for you.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
