I wouldn't have sex with him when he was together with the OW. I was really stupid and believed him. He had ended with with OW during this time and we were trying to work things out. He told me that they had made out several times and he wanted to go farther, but she refused because he was married. She wanted to wait until after he had left me until they had sex. I thought it was safe and a good idea in piecing my marriage back together.

Obviously he lied to me and I fell for it. I understand why I fell for it.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08