So exH calls me in the middle of the night last night and tells me that he just had an accident in his car and it is totaled. He was text messaging (most likely OW) and hit something and the next thing he knew, he was in the car laying on it's side. My first thought was how glad I was to have my name removed from that car last month! I am so glad that I didn't drag my feet on getting my name removed. I am not connected to that car in any way! He isn't hurt, just embarassed. He said that I am the only person he was telling about this.

If you have seen my thread in infidelity, you will see that I have an STD (warts) which may or may not be HPV. I dont' know right now. I am 99% sure this came from my xH. At the moment I have no feelings about it. I am just wanting to find out what exactly is wrong with me so I can move from there.

I just hate how this affair keeps messing up my life....

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08