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for JeninVen #1608760 09/30/08 10:16 PM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805 sgctxok OP Member
OP sgctxok Member Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805	If you haven't seen her thread,we are so sad to report that Jen lost her beloved husband last night. It was reported was shot and killed on his way to see her. Jen, We're crying our eyes out with you!....sending our love, sg. Feel free to post messages here or on her thread...we will leave it open. Last edited by sgctxok; 09/30/08 10:36 PM. sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

Re: for JeninVen sgctxok #1608804 09/30/08 11:12 PM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 4,626 L Lissie Member
Lissie Member L Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 4,626	OMG Jen. I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family and your D. God Bless Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God

Re: for JeninVen Lissie #1608853 10/01/08 12:07 AM
Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,009 SDFoundGirl Member
SDFoundGirl Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,009	I'm sorry is not enough to say, but I am so sorry you are experiencing this. I wish you peace and comfort at this time. SD Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!

Re: for JeninVen Lissie #1608856 10/01/08 12:08 AM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Jen, I am so so sorry.Sending you love and prayers ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: for JeninVen brandnewday #1608858 10/01/08 12:09 AM
Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 5,835 Planet Earth 3 3K451 Member
3K451 Member 3 Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 5,835 Planet Earth	I am so very sorry you had to experience such a tragedy. Sending you prayers.

Re: for JeninVen 3K451 #1608867 10/01/08 12:19 AM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 3,103 LA N No_hill_for_a_Swimmer Member
No_hill_for_a_Swimmer Member N Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 3,103 LA	Jen Anytime you wish to express your feelings reguardless of what they seem hopefully you will feel free to do so.I do not know specific what groups on the web provide support for your sitch but I am sure Michelle and/or her volunteers can give you some good safe venues. When the pace slows down write a letter to him and put it away. make a decision in a year if you want to read/burn or delay reading it. I'm sorry for your loss. Best wishes. "All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin

Re: for JeninVen No_hill_for_a_Swimmer #1608871 10/01/08 12:25 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,302 Northern CA (Sacramento) N NikB Member
NikB Member N Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,302 Northern CA (Sacramento)	Jen, I put it on your thread but wanted to here as well. I am so, so sorry. And as SD said, that's not nearly enough to say. There just aren't any words. (((Jen))) Thinking of you and your family. Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread

Re: for JeninVen NikB #1608932 10/01/08 01:38 AM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 2,580 North Carolina N NoCodeBlues Member
NoCodeBlues Member N Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 2,580 North Carolina	(((((Jen))))) Me: 49 WAW: 47 S11, S7 Years Married/Together: 17/18 Bomb: 6/15/07 Separation: 7/6/07 D: 4/3/09 Real love is a decision. Marriage is a commitment.

Re: for JeninVen NoCodeBlues #1608955 10/01/08 02:08 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,012 St. Louis area S Starshyne Member
Starshyne Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,012 St. Louis area	Jen my heart is feeling so much sorrow for you right now. Words cannot express how sorry I feel for you and everyone else in your family. We all love you here and are here for you if you need us. Sara Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08

Re: for JeninVen Starshyne #1608959 10/01/08 02:14 AM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 2,550 F Forrest Gump Member
Forrest Gump Member F Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 2,550	Jen... I never know what to say when something like this happens. Just know.. there are others out here mourning your loss with you.. I hope that counts for something. We all wish we could be standing there with you.. just imagine we are. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QJse82M6BM Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work. Lets get "RETARDED" in here.

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