Hi Saffie, I understand your logic completely. I was not there for my husband. I was into my own stuff and really did ignore his needs. He was lonely, and one of his coworkers went after him and it did not take much to get his attention since I was not giving him any.
I am upset when I look back and see how just doing the small things I do not think I would be in this situation now. I pray it is not too late and only time will tell. Point well taken and I respect that coming from you since I consider you a great success story.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09