I have been feeling much the way you do lately. Wondering why H does things for OW that used to make him gripe and complain and make life miserable because he couldn't afford to hire it done.
This morning, I read Charlyne Cares written by Bob and marveled at how messages come right when I need an answer.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.