Hi checking in minute by minute because I need to cope.
Marisol, I cannot change jobs because there is only so many positions here (65), small group, so it is not an option. I can expose the A but both will get fired. Then I can't live either.
As for avoiding H, he came here twice today. Now he has called me. We need to finish some training and usually I do it for him and he is floundering with it. I said what is your staff doing? meaning OW, he said no-one has done it (she is stupid by the way!), So would it be a DB helping him do the training on the eve of him leaving me or do I have him do it because I do not want him to see me as controlling and doing everything for him?????? any ideas.

As far as D, keep filing different things. I like the idea of the mediator to delay, delay, delay. You need the time for your H to get sick of the A. Maybe his going away and talking to family will help your case.

T2L - you are killing us...more info more info. what's the plan. I can't get book till the weekend. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO??????


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09