I read through yours but could not find a current one to post to?
Our sitch are similar it seems indeed. I cannot believe things went south so quickly- but my H also seemed to revert. Since I was the money earner, and he the student- it was easy for me to play controller and mother figure. He responded by acting like a student- hanging out with people/ and EA 10 years younger than me. I'm not that old but I'm not 24 anymore- I'm much better than then! And wiser!
I feel like he is acting his bachelor days- he never lived alone. Was with girlfriend, then sister, then another girlfriend- never really got to be a man. Well- he is getting his chance now- just I really don't feel running away embodies that but Hey- I guess that is where we are.
Like you I can't wait to see him and talk to him. Lots of other newcomer sitch involve R that are getting worse and worse. Here it seems like there are more people with steps in the right direction?
Not that there haven't been days where I just lose it, but I am hopeful too. I don't see my sitch going on for years or more without some sort of direction. In part because my H graduates next May, and is planning on doing an internship- applications for those are due by Jan- decisions by March. There is a 95% chance that it will be nowhere where we live now- sooo... I figure in the next months it will either be we are going together or he goes on his own. Maybe that is a good thing? Maybe not?
Anyway- where is your current thread?
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
