Ok jumping on real quick who ever wants to do this get the book. Read it don't skip anything. And yes its kinda a last push for me. I feel like everything is going on around me but I'm not in it if that makes sense. This is a solid plan. To of them a Plan A and a Plan B.

So I feel pretty good about it and it gives lots of information on marriage and the needs in a marriage.

So here's the title. Surviving An Affair by Dr. Willard Harley. Your going to really like the read anyways because it explains the addiction of these betraying spouse, so it's going to open your mind up to understand what motivates them. If anything your going to be able to cope better. It is by a Christian man although it does not preach in the bible so it's friendly for anyone to read.

Step 1: Go get the book.

My Plan A is starting Saturday. Wait til you guys here. God help me be able to do this. I'm excited and nervous but in the end I know I will feel that either way this goes, I will know that I have implemented many things and have grown and can live forward no matter what.

Back later tonight....


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca