Trying2live- the new post 1

[marisol35]

Hi Hope! I just can't imagine having to work with H and OW.. you are a strong woman!!! It kills me to know OW works at the same company as my H even though they are not in the same building! I can't even begin to relate to how you feel every day. I do know they go out to lunch together every day.... wow I think I would have to change jobs. Is that something you have thought about? When he moves you will still be seeing him at work and he will see you so it would be difficult to accomplish the detachment that so many have talked about on these forums.... Your H has to start missing you and he isn't going to if he can still see you at work every day. KWIM?

My dream is to live by a beach...I absolutely LOVE the beach... I wish I could take walks on the beach every night... The sound of the waves is so soothing to me...

GAL -
1. Divorce support group (once a week but only went once since it was more pro-divorce than pro-marriage)
2. Plan more dates with friends to hang out
3. Find a local church and start going again
4. Take a dance class (when my ankle is strong enough - I hurt it when I went to Chicago)

Any ideas on how to turn the divorce around? Not sure where to start...